Matthew 1:18-25 · The Birth of Jesus Christ
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Matthew 1:18-25
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by Charles L. Aaron
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Now that Matthew has finished his genealogy, he starts his narrative. We would not have much of a Bible without the narratives, but sometimes the biblical authors frustrate us. We always want more details. We want to know where the characters come from, what happens to them as they walk off stage. Just as we are starting to identify with a character, she will disappear, never to return. Matthew is no different. Right in his second sentence, he does the thing that frustrates us. He presents a scene that could be full of drama and emotion, but glosses over it in a few words. Speaking of Mary, he says, "she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit" (Matthew 1:18). When we read that sentence, we don't want to skip over it so quickly. To us, this looks like a drama that Days of Our Lives couldn't hope to match! What might have been behind Matthew's short phrase, "she was found to be with child"? What did Mary think when she discovered she was pregnant? We might think she was in anguish, worried sick about how to tell Joseph. Can't we just see her, teary-eyed, shoulders heaving, handkerchief in a bunch, wondering what to do? What was the scene like when she told him? Surely his first impulse was that she had betrayed him. Can't we just see his jaw drop? Only the readers know by verse 18 that the child is of the Holy Spirit. Neither Joseph nor Mary knows of this until Joseph has his dream. Wouldn't Mary be beside herself, not knowing how her pregnancy had happened? Even though Matthew tells us that Joseph was a good man, surely he was confused by the story Mary told him.

Because Joseph is a good man, he doesn't punish Mary as he might have. He could have humiliated her. Deuteronomy 22 even talked of adulterous women deserving death. Joseph wanted to spare Mary's reputation and feelings. He arranged to divorce her quietly or secretly. No one needed to know the couple's sense of shame and confusion. We admire Joseph that he did not try to punish Mary, or hold her guilt over her in a kind of power play. Joseph is like the wise husband or understanding wife who doesn't bring up stuff from years ago in the middle of an argument. He is like the compassionate parent who allows a child to grow out from under past mistakes. Wise parents avoid labeling a child based on a few early goof-ups. Even as much as we admire Joseph's character, we wish we had some insight into his inner struggle when he tried to decide what to do about Mary's pregnancy. Did he fight within himself over a course of action?

However juicy these details might have been, however much they might have drawn us more deeply into the narrative, they only hover briefly in the background for Matthew. He touches on them only enough to set the stage. What takes center stage for Matthew is how God is working in this messy love affair between Joseph and Mary. Mary's pregnancy is of the Holy Spirit. That is far too mysterious a matter for us to speak of it in much detail. We cannot probe too deeply into the biology of this pregnancy. We cannot even discover what Mary thought about bearing this child. God takes the initiative in this narrative. God takes so much initiative that we even wonder whether Mary felt overwhelmed. We would never say that God did not care about Mary's needs. Yet, here might be a case where God's purposes were larger than the needs of one couple. However difficult and awkward the pregnancy may have been for Mary and Joseph, God was acting for the salvation of creation.

If we cannot say much about the biology or psychology of this narrative, we can speak of what God is doing. God is working through this pregnancy and birth. The baby growing, thrashing, kicking in Mary's womb is God's act of salvation. This baby — beyond any ability we have to explain — is God in human flesh. Matthew quotes Isaiah as a way of saying what can't be said. "Look, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son and they shall name him Emmanuel," which means, "God is with us." The words from Isaiah seem almost not to fit. The quote from Isaiah says that the baby's name is to be Emmanuel, which, of course, was not Jesus' name. Nevertheless, Jesus embodies God with us. The quote, almost shoehorned in by Matthew, helps us to see who Jesus is. The proclamation that Jesus is God with us — God in human flesh — may seem strange to us. We may struggle to think of any words to express it so that it makes sense. Nevertheless, that affirmation is at the heart of our faith. Jesus is God with us and for us. As one theologian puts it, "According to the witness of the New Testament, the very basis of our salvation, the very ground of our hope consists in the fact that we are permitted to believe, know, and confess the authoritative presence of God in the human life and destiny of Jesus."1

The angel tells Joseph to name the baby Jesus. Jesus is the Greek form of Joshua, which in Hebrew means "Yahweh saves." God acts in Jesus to save us from our sins. God saves us from the effects of our sins. Those effects include the hurts other people have caused us. For all the ways we have been neglected, for all the times someone took their problems out on us, for all the ways people have held us back, God saves us. God soothes our hurts and gives us the strength to move on. God saves us from the things we've done that we can't undo. For the regrets that seem to hold us hostage, God offers us release. God saves us from the big sins for which we all chip in our two cents' worth. For pollution, and racism, for poverty, and the ways we just let things keep going, God saves us. God doesn't want us just to keep letting these things be, but God saves us. God saves us from the guilt of our sins. On our own we cannot reestablish the relationship we might have had with God. That relationship has been shattered. Only God can pick up the crushed pieces of that relationship and reform them. In Jesus — in this birth we cannot explain — God saves us.

We always need to hear that God took the first step to save us. Especially at this time of year, though, we need to hear that God acted to save us in the midst of what looks to us like a better soap opera than we could ever see on a weekday afternoon. If our lives are messy, full of tough decisions and awkward moments, we take heart knowing that God has been there before. God's act of salvation didn't take place in a sweet, serene little family. Mary may have cried her eyes out while telling Joseph about her pregnancy. Joseph's heart may have nearly popped out of his chest when he decided that he had to let Mary go. Matthew doesn't let us know those details, but certainly this story has its share of loose ends. God brings salvation out of those loose ends. Theologians tell us that Jesus was both human and divine. Matthew, a theologian who tells stories, tells us that Jesus' humanity arose from the same pain and family conflict that marks our lives. Christmas time can bring out the tensions that often lie just under the surface. We need to hear that God is working for salvation in those tensions.

Look at how this gospel starts and how it ends. Joseph was going to dismiss Mary quietly, in secret. No one would have known. Mary would have saved face, but it wouldn't have mattered to anyone. Look, though, at how Matthew's gospel ends! Jesus commissions the disciples to go make disciples of all nations (Matthew 28:19). What almost was snuffed out in secret ends up changing the whole world, all the nations. However things look to us now, God is working. God is healing. God is saving. When God takes initiative, we never know how it will turn out.

What do we think is important in these last few days before Christmas? Are we scurrying around, enslaved to our to-do list? Are our travel plans finished? Can we make the end-of-year deadlines on all things personal and professional? We may have no choice in the flurry of this season. In all of those details let us not forget that they are really behind the scenes stuff. What we think really matters might rate only half a line from Matthew. Matthew wants us to see what God is doing in the craziness of Christmas. Let us see how God is acting, even in situations that seem to us to be pure pain. Let us see how, no matter how lost and broken we may feel, God is saving us. Let us see that, no matter how divided up we are, or how hostile our world seems, God is with us. Amen.


1. Jan Milic Lochman, The Faith We Confess, translated by David Lewis (Philadelphia: Fortress Press, 1984), p. 104.

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